True love are two words used by many but understood by few or rarely anyone. True love is not a joint profit scheme like give me food and social identity and consume my body. Genuine love means giving my Mirana the power to destroy me, and repeatedly trusting her not to do. Pure love is a very selfless act. Genuine love means to give everything I have and not expect anything in return from Mirana.
True love is an incurable disease which is known to affect heart, brain, eyes, thinking and the whole body. Symptoms are included but not limited to the following: biased judgment, lightheadedness, eye-watering, chest pains, and an increased need to be with the person who infected you. And also it is known as a highly contagious and can be deadly. True love means when you can’t get over someone, even after a long time and distance. Then, I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about Miru and smile because of how happy I feel just to be with her, to think about the warmth of her and imagining looking into her eyes hour after hour.
Let me take an example. Pure love is not something someone does with his wife ( your paper husband pulls your pajamas down, then he fucks you until he gets satisfied, then he makes you bleeding, you do slavery for that imbecile, half educated, half-witted faggot) every day. Doing something every day means you are spending two to three hours daily just sitting beside someone or something that means nothing to you.
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Someone or something can be a tree, a cow, a pig or a dog, or a cat. After a couple of months, you will certainly find that you treat it as much love as you do feel for your paper husband. Maybe the pig does not know anything about this. That doesn’t matter and this is not genuine love at all. This means feeling comfortable with someone or something familiar such as taking rice every day and love to have it forever.
Mirana, believe me, real love is opposite to the above-mentioned activities. True love happens within your soul, brain, eyes, and feeling. For true love, you need not be enslaved/ caged for someone forever because pure love encourages 100% personal freedom, growth, learnings, sharing, caring, happiness, mutual trust, deep understanding and spending year after year by looking into the eyes of beloved. Now, I hope that you realize that true love is not something that you do daily; pure love resides in your soul, eyes, heart, and brain year after year even if you are far away.
If true love were involved with greed for money, then commercial prostitutes would have been the happiest people in the world. This is because from every client they earn a lot of money. In many cases, it can be seen that the sluts have freedom of choices and they are not bound to sell their bodies every day to a particular male-only. On the other hand, marrying someone for money means being abused and raped for the whole life and becoming his prostitute or maidservant forever. Letting husband being monitored and controlled throughout the life means depriving of personal liberty. Having looked at both sides, the professional sluts are happier than that of the married women who are hankering after money.
It is patience, generosity, humility, courtesy, restraint, joy, and consistency.
“Unconditional love” is loving someone on no conditions or no matter what. This is genuine love because in this case lover gives for the sake of making the beloved happy. In this case, beloved has no intentions of receiving the love back. True love means making myself vulnerable to Miru, while I completely know that my Miru may betray me.
When a relationship develops on true love, it must be equal. If one person tries to control wife, be it by yelling and screaming or stonewalling and regular monitoring, neither person is experiencing an adult, equal, and purely loving relationship. True love is non-controlling, non-manipulative and non-threatening. True love is peaceful, patience, natural, romantic, trustworthy, free from lie, soul-to-soul connection. True love is rare in this society. Finding someone who fills life, desire, meets spiritual, emotional, and physical needs is tough, which doesn’t happen to everyone.
Have you ever thought of the meaning of genuine love? Believe me, genuine love is celestial. Pure love is having telepathy between the two souls (My Miru and Me). True love is having patience, kindness, selflessness, protection, adoration optimism, dedication, empathy, sacrifice, passion, no expectations, belief, and veneration and so on between the two souls of lovers. And also, true love is having a God-given connection between the two hearts and envisioning that is invisible to the others in the world. Please trust me the true love is very special and it must be nurtured and trusted.
It means being able to put Mirana’s happiness before my own happiness, a bond which is once created is never forgotten, the merger of two hearts which fit together well, seeing my Miru perfectly through my eyes. True love is endless, youthful and timeless. Once I have found my Miru’s soul, it suddenly becomes the world to me. Pure happiness, True love is a strong and lasting affection between spouses or lovers. EFFORTLESS AND ETERNAL ATTRACTION.
Once there is no joy or happiness in love, then there is no longer any love. Developing a sense of liberty within a relationship allows both to grow and flow. This means caging is just opposite of true love. Pure love is a gift of one’s innermost soul to another so both can be separate entity. If there is no joy or happiness in love, then love is not genuine.
Respect for each other is the most important factor to sustain true love. We experience true love only when we have something to give. It’s about being selfless and caring about the wife’s needs as much as caring about our own.
Trust is the most basic foundation of true love.
True love makes me feel vulnerable without being fearful or defensive.
Loyalty in relationships not only brings emotional stability but also increases intimacy levels. True love always favors personal and spiritual growth. It’s a natural process that is essential for our happiness and freedom. True love promotes natural growth that not only fills life with happiness and freedom but also helps with professional success. True love is playful and grows together without resistance or fear. True love is sacred. True love is freedom. True love is forgiveness. When we are in true love, we are closer to God. We find true love by being ourselves. It comes to us when we least expect it.
There are some fundamental aspects of true love.
First, My Miru, please trust me, in true love, you must enjoy 100% personal freedom. If a person loves you genuinely, he shall ensure 100% freedom in your life. If the opposite is happening in your life, it is not true love at all. True love means, you must love in such a way that the person you love feels totally free, not only outside world but also inside of the heart.
Please ask yourself, whether you enjoy freedom, you are free from monitoring and controlling, you have enough space in your heart and all around you or not. This is an intelligent question for testing whether your love is genuine or not. For example, caging is not loving the bird you caged. On the other hand, making the bird free in the sky means that you truly love that bird. This is true.
Then comes kindness in love-making. What I mean by this is that during the lovemaking whether your lover generates feelings of kindness, affection and tenderness, on various stages. Anything that shows your lover cares: being tender in physical touching, and kind in the discourse, kindness in thought and quality of listening, and in entire physical lovemaking. These are sings of pure love.
Opposite of these in lovemaking by the lover is give-and-take relationship which is fake and anomalous. Loving-kindness is not only the desire to make wife happy but also to bring ecstasy, joy and emotional satisfaction in her mind and body. If husband’s love makes his wife cries and suffers on the bed, then it is fake love. This is because the husband does not understand his wife, so his love is not genuine.
Compassion is another key element of true love. It is something more than casual, something more than “no strings attached”. Compassion in lovemaking is something beautiful, enjoyable, and amazing which you can remember forever. Compassionate lovemaking is an experience between two lovers that have a strong desire to care, and share, passionate, and please each other which means that lovemaking is not limited or restricted sexual hunger only.
Compassion is not only the desire to ease the pain of lover, but also the ability to do so by deep looking into the eyes of beloved in order to gain a good understanding of the nature of the suffering, and to be able to help him to change. If he doesn’t change, then his love for you is not true love at all.
Finally, believe me, my angel, if there is no joy in lovemaking, intelligent erotic chemistry between both souls, and romantic demeanor of beloved, it is not true love at all. If you are shouldering all responsibilities, getting a victim of force and abuse on the bed, control freaking attitude and suffering all the time by the husband which make you cry; then this is not real love–it is even the opposite. If there is no immense joy, pleasure, and adventure in love, you can be a hundred percent sure that it is not true love.
Miru, believe me, true love is not only committed to another soul but also ready to make sacrifices. Pure love is sacrificial. Just the opposite of possessiveness.
Another element of true love is patience. Is he pestering you with sex? Did he say he cannot wait that he wants you now? He can’t wait for a long time for your convenient time. Impatience is evidence that he has never been in love with you, he needs you only fulfilling his sexual hunger which is opposite of true love.
The single most important factor in true love is selflessness. This love naturally encourages feelings of selflessness. Nothing ruins a relationship faster than selfishness.
Pure love means feeling secure enough that you don’t feel angry if your partner spends time with her friends.
Many educated people in society mistakenly believe that jealousy is a sign of true love. Jealously is not sing of pure love because the jealousy is a negative emotion which is stem from both carnal desire and insecurity. Jealously is not part of pure love at all. Inversely, jealousy, distrust, and possessiveness kill true love. These three are stem from your debilitating need to be loved and be taken care of, even at the cost of wife’s personal freedom.
