I think we’re talking about trends here. The classic irritations between men and women can also occur in homosexual partnerships in the same way. Rather, it is role models that are embodied there and these cannot be sexually fixed. So here I give an answer that does not postulate any generality, is based in the indication of gender only on a tendency of the distribution of roles and would like to state before I give it that I think that this is only one common problem diagram, but if this is not available , this does not mean there are no problems. Then there are simply others.
The man thinks in the relationship rather in linear success lines and resource-related (time, money, effort). For him, emotion should only appear in good emotion as a reward for a successful relationship. For the woman, success in the relationship means that she can give her feelings validity and space, whether good or bad, without being sanctioned (at least irrationally).
In the eyes of the woman, this is not a death sentence against the man, it is not even a judgment. She wants to make her frustration noticeable to the other person because he still (slightly) burdens her. In their eyes, that’s what makes a good relationship so that you can make your emotions tangible to the other person. The man, on the other hand, is faced with the accusation of unsuccessful because he was concerned with avoiding a comment of a negative emotion at all costs. He will argue very resource-related, instead of responding to the emotion, because the emotion is bad, so undesirable, so it should not be there, instead of giving it legitimacy and letting it be then. The woman should think like him and let the emotion be immediately and not humiliate him as a loser.
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Both have the feeling that the other person is wrong for the good of the relationship: the woman because the man has not responded to her feelings, but has blocked, the man because the woman has to hold on to a bad feeling again, although he has tried and now it would be time to let the bad feeling be. He continues to block, she clings to her frustration. The situation is best dealt with until an external or unexpected input comes in that puts a new emotion in the foreground, or in the worst case the situation rocks with all the niceness’s that both have in the backhand and that are never on the subject do because because the woman has to hold on to a bad feeling again, even though he tried and now it would be time to let go of the bad feeling.
He continues to block, she clings to her frustration. The situation is best dealt with until an external or unexpected input comes in that puts a new emotion in the foreground, or in the worst case the situation rocks with all the niceness’s that both have in the backhand and that are never on the subject do because because the woman has to hold on to a bad feeling again, even though he tried and now it would be time to let go of the bad feeling. He continues to block, she clings to her frustration.
