I believe that human suffering occurs to everyone every day in some or the other way, we just have to find happiness in little things and keep our mind to peace. Sometimes, there will be suffering that one can’t cope up with. We don’t see it all the time, but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t work. Whenever we experience it, we typically ask, ‘Is human suffering meaningful?’ I guess that I can easily address this issue. Yeah, it really has purpose. Individuals blame people for not feeling guilty for their own pain.
One experience that I would like to share is about my own personal suffering period while I lost my great grandmother. I was twelve years old when she left me, I was super close and connected to her. She was exceptionally talented and down to earth person. She loved children and that is the main reason why I was the most favorite great grandchild of hers as I was the first born in my family. There was nothing I could hear so I just tried to sit myself. My mother heard me sobbing, but I couldn’t get myself to weep. I stayed in the car on my way to my grandma’s house because that’s where she was living since my grandfather died and I was in a lot of pain and as I went into her room, I had the worst heart feeling. The sight can never be missed. My great grandmother, with no existence in her once vibrant face, lying in bed, freezing and not living any more. It was difficult to cope with the pain that I felt when I first learned about her passing. Her death made me feel hollow inside. The sense of sorrow, loneliness and discomfort I experienced was my misery. Human pain is a complicated idea to understand, but misery is a fact of life for everyone, not only mine. I was only given some amount of time to say farewell to her, but it was not even long enough for me. I couldn’t believe that it would be the last time I ever saw my grandma that day, just laying right there in front of me, so it was not the way I had expected.
To place the pain behind one needs to live with the source and cope with it. Blame, revenge, Faith and optimistic mindset aid reconcile human nature with the reality and misery. Human suffering is the agony and sorrow one experiences internally because something terrible has occurred to her or to anyone around her. If a individual thinks about severe conditions, there is gratitude that there was no worse pain. Being positive can make one know her pain isn’t as severe as it may have been. Feeling depressed and hollow inside isn’t my idea of having fun. At the time my grandma passed, I became indignant. I’d accused the physicians following her death for not working desperately enough to save her from her heart attack. It was simply not fair for medical staff to give up too quickly. I went back to church instead, and I told Him why this occurred. I knew the moment had arrived for her to move on and her chance to go to heaven. Thinking of the bright factors has always helped me overcome my suffering. Suffering may be painful to cope with however it can be done, believe me, by moral healing, punishing someone, finding revenge and focusing for the positive side. All positive things in life is achieved by resolving the unpleasant encounter connected with it. Even negative consequences are efforts to prevent negation, to stop or suppress it or to interrupt it. Going away from discomfort is a challenge. Eviting fighting is a challenge. Mistake to reject is a failure.
References
- National Center for Biotechnology Information – The Experience of Suffering
- National Center for Biotechnology Information – Suffering: A Gift That is Not a Given
- National Center for Biotechnology Information – The Philosophy of Human Suffering and Life Devaluation in Addiction
- PubMed – Perceptions of the Meaning of Human Suffering
- ProQuest – The Psychosocial Experience of Suffering: Meaning and Perception Among Patients Diagnosed With Cancer